What is good and bad touch? Explain to your children in these easy ways at a young age the difference between good and bed touch..
It is very important that from a young age, we should tell our children the difference between good touch and bed touch so that they never fall prey to any event which will disturb them in future. The difference between a boy or a girl bed should be known. These days when the parents come to know about the cases of child abuse, they get very nervous about their children. Instead of worrying, it is very important that we explain this to the children at the right time.
Good Touch – It feels, pleasant and good, it is a way to show care, love and help. Explain with the help of examples like when mommy hugs you or papa gives you a goodnight kiss or your grandparents hold you in their arms and you hold your friend’s hands while playing.
Bad Touch – Touches that make you uncomfortable and you feel unpleasant and you want to stop it there and then. Again, use some examples to explain them like, it is a bad touch if you feel hurt, if you do not want to be touched, if someone touches your private parts without a reason, if someone touches you and tells you not to tell anyone, all these are examples of a bad touch.
Video
There are many videos on social media nowadays, which are specially made for children. In these videos, children are easily told about this subject according to their language and their understanding. So let the children sit with you and show this video with great love. Keep in mind that this video is not affecting the mindset of the child much.
Drawing
Children can easily understand what they do not understand by speaking, listening, and seeing pictures of them. So draw a picture or make a chart, through which a person can tell which part of the body of a child can be touched and which part is not. Remember that whatever the picture or chart you are making is colorful. Colors stay in our mind for a long time.
Concocted stories
Create concocted stories for children through which they will be able to easily understand your point. You can create many characters in your story, but remember that the character who touches the bed should tell it like a monster so that it sits in the minds of children and also tell in the story that there will be many good people in this world. Are those we can trust.
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